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Dad-Brain

Dad-brain
I’m sure we have all heard of pregnancy brain. But I think there may be something like Dad brain too. Here are a list of things I have done since being a Dad. It truly is like nothing else I have ever experienced. I know it’s supposed to be life-changing but it has changed the way I think about EVERY decision I make.

1. Put a coffee cup upside down under the Keurig making coffee go EVERYWHERE
2. Put my keys in the freezer one morning
3. Forgot to close the lid on my coffee mug after putting it in my backpack and spilled coffee all over everything when I bent down to kiss my wife and daughter goodbye
4. I haven’t made it to work on time in well over 3 months – something comes up in the morning…or there is traffic…or I just want a few extra minutes with  my little girl
5. I can NEVER find my gosh darn wallet!!!!!
6. My multitasking ability is down to an all-time low

And others-

I’d trade a night with E over a night out grabbing a drink (although every now and again , it’s a MUST to get out!

Movies…eh, still love ’em but they have taken their rightful place as entertainment and not something I feel I HAVE to do.

Picture Time

As part of my Father’s Day present(s), I got a new digital camera to replace my shoddy one. While we still haven’t quite figured out all the fancy features on it, we love trying it out. Some of my other presents were some matching daddy and daughter t-shirts and the promise of a future picture day!

A few weekends ago, we made this happen and here are the results. E is super…and adorable…and any number of other adjectives

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Daycare

Well, it’s been a fun ride but the time has come for both of us to return to the world of the working. Luckily day care is at the wife’s school so she can still check in on her from time to time. Dropping her off that first day was NOT an easy thing to do.

I’m so glad my girls got 17 weeks together. I couldn’t have imagined a better scenario. Their mother/daughter bond is so strong.

May God be with Ann, Rochelle and Renee as they take care of our girl and all the other children this 2014-15 school year. For now, there are only 4 girls in the “smaller” room so I wonder who her first “friend” will be!

4 Months

E is going to turn 4 months old officially in a few hours. It’s at the point where I am starting to forget how things were at first. I love her so much….

I made this little montage to see all the faces and personality traits that she has shown over the last 121 days.

Emerson

We are F-A-M-I-L-Y

My sister couldn’t wait any longer to see her niece again – and the feeling was mutual. Mom came down to make it a family reunion. All of us together in the same place for the first time since a brief hour or two at our baby shower in February. A lot has changed since then.

We all had an awesome time. Leon and Chuck came to up the testosterone count but the ladies still had us badly outnumbered. The weather was a bit crappy so it kinda ruined our proposed plans but we still got in an awesome brunch at Copper Kettle and lunch/dinner at Saffire. I am so ready for the next visit already!

The Godfather

Becky and I talked about who we wanted to help guide our daughter in her spiritual walk long before she was here. We are really big on the roles people play in our lives (and now our family) and making sure we make as informed a decision as possible.

For the Godfather, we couldn’t have picked anyone other than Tyler Henson. He has been a friend to me since 1999 (really) and has seen so many phases of my life – from the college kid who made ridiculously stupid decisions to a somewhat mature adult to the end of my bachelorhood into marriage and now fatherhood. He’s put up with more than his fair share of my BS and has stuck with me the entire way. We are in each other’s weddings and celebrate almost every major event together. Heck, we even get together every February for a group Hibachi dinner.  He is a true definition of friend.

ty and his goddaughter
I love thinking about him praying for our little girl and our daughters playing together in the future. She’s one lucky girl and we are two lucky parents.

College

I think it’s never too early to think about college for our little girl. The estimated cost of a 4 year degree is $442K. What? Really? How did I get out of school in 1998 with a 4 year degree that cost about $20K…and from a reputable Sun Belt conference school.

degree

With that being said..Becky and I are hoping that we can use birthdays and Christmas as times to add on extra to her account. We have a TN Stars 529 account started for her already – Dad started this as soon as we got her SSN.
Thank you for your support!

Firsts!

Becky and I have both gotten to experience a ton of firsts this year. But the sweetest of all is probably our first Mother’s Day and Father’s Day! Both are so great…I was happy to spoil Becky and she did so for me as well – though I would have been fine with a belt or tie and a nice card! Either way, we got to spend time together as a family and dote on our little one who made this all possible.

Mother’s Day

giordanos for mothers day
Giordanos!
happy mothers day shirt (1)
Custom T-Shirt!
mom's little krispy kreme gift
Baby loves Krispy Kreme!
mother's day cookie cake (2)
Best Mom Cookie Cake

Mom woke up at the crack of dawn and was ready to PLAY! We got some coffee and donuts at Krispy Kreme (E wanted some too but we had to say no).  We had a bit of shopping to do so we checked out Walmart where Dad picked out a delicious cookie cake for Mom..and we got our daughter a new shirt (can’t leave the store nowadays without one). We actually went to 2 parks on Mother’s Day – Aspen Grove Park and Centennial Park.

Dad ordered Mom 2 deep dish pizzas from Giordano’s and surprised her with that. We decided to save them for the next week or two and enjoy some family time at home.

I think Mom had a great first Mother’s Day 🙂

Father’s Day

Daddy got up early after getting back in town from a wedding in California. He wanted to spend as much time as possible with his little one. Becky got up and made monkeybread for breakfast – yum, yum, yum!

We relaxed for a bit and took E to Bicentennial Park and walked around for a bit. It was so busy and full of people. We dipped E’s toes into the fountains where we took our post engagement pictures.

Later, we went to the Southern downtown for brunch. How yummy! You’ve gotta try their Chicken and Waffles!

To cap the night off, we had family time upstairs and watched the Spurs dispatch the Miami Heat.

I’m sure I missed a ton of other stuff that happened but that’s the best part – so many good things that I can’t even describe them all.
On Tuesday, we had this deliciousness below for dinner – oh yeah, Becky had 8 Italian beef sandwiches from one of my favorite all time restaurants in Chicago shipped in. We still have 4 left after last night so it looks like Father’s Day will keep going on.

Portillos - Italian Beef
Portillos – Italian Beef
Brunch at the Southern
Brunch at the Southern

 

Introductions

Emerson has been lucky to meet some very special people over her first few weeks from family to friends to family that feel like friends. Here is some proof.

Just Pictures

They say a picture (or look) is worth a thousand words…well, here’s a ton of words.