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35!

I turned 35 last week. I can’t believe how fast my 30s have gone…especially this last year. So much has changed in this last year especially.

It was a weird week. Becky and Emerson were out of school all week due to the snow, ice and sleet and I worked from home Monday – Wednesday. We were pretty much stuck at home after a fun dinner out on Sunday at Famous Dave’s (thank you birthday coupons!).

So when Friday came and the forecast called for more snow in the afternoon and right in the middle of rush hour, the day started off cautiously. I was able to get out of work about 3 PM when the first snowflake hit and made it home in time to play with Emerson in the snow (see the pic). Becky and Emerson made it a special day…and week. Becky made me sweet love notes out of candy boxes and surprised me with balloons and a delicious carrot cake at the house. All I wanted was time with my girls and I got just that.

We went out on Saturday for a special dinner at Texas de Brazil. Meat coma and so delicious!

E the snow princess 35th birthday treat bag goobers and dots
Thanks to everyone for the Facebook messages, voicemails, text, tweets and calls. I am a lucky guy!

 

Oh and check out how good we look on our Valentine’s date night…..if you want to hear a fun story, just ask!

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Thank God for the DVR…

I’m a serial TV watcher. When I watch a show, I watch every episode the week it airs (normally within the first night or two). I’ve been this way since college and I can’t explain it. I even watched the last 3 seasons of Smallville…when Lex Luthor was gone from the show and the bad guy was his DNA. Yep, that really happened….

And then came Emerson….we are weeks behind on New Girl and Modern Family. Scandal is the only show we really keep up with and it’s normally viewed by us on Saturday. I’m not even sure I know what day it comes on anymore.

And thank you Facebook for ruining a Walking Dead spoiler for me…

Manners

I am working from home today while the snow and sleet continue to form outside. I just love hearing Becky talk to Emerson. When she gets into something she’s not supposed to, Becky will just say “no ma’am”.

I have always loved the politeness of sir and ma’am. I remember my cousin David would enforce it with his kids. I’m not sure we will do the same but manners go a long way in this world….as much as things change, that’s one thing that hasn’t.

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Plans??!? With a baby?!?

One thing I have learned about parenting is how plans can fall apart so quickly. It’s almost better to have no plan at all sometimes.

A baby with a fever that has to be sent home from day care AND must then stay home the next day = finding a sitter on really short notice…or taking a day off from work on REALLY short notice. And what do parents do when a snow day is called and their kids can’t stay home by themselves yet? Which parent takes off?

Baby didn’t nap for the day and realllly needs one…well, cancel that coffee with a friend in the late afternoon and put that kid to sleep!

Guys night out at the movies and baby had a not so good day – better get that movie on Netflix in a few months!

I get envious of my friends who have family that live in the same town as them from time to time. It must be nice to be able to lean on a loving grandparent who lives a few streets away. Granted, they probably still have jobs too but anyway to spread the support must help out. I have never wanted to move back to Memphis (nor Becky to Michigan) but this, in addition to wanting E to be around more family as she grows up, has put the very notion on the table. It’s still a .000001 change but that’s more than it ever has been.

Some days…

After a Monday morning of a way too early wake up call from E, playing her new favorite game of being chased around on the floor and some teething inducted crying, this picture is what I got to enjoy for 15 minutes before heading off to work.

Daddy snuggles
Daddy snuggles

Parenting. Fatherhood. It’s all worth it.

PS. Did I mention she of course found our new mop and decided to chew on it too? Nothing below 4 feet fall is safe!